The second guy was a lawyer. He asked me to meet him for coffee in Bryant Park, which actually does have a coffee kiosk, but he never got me coffee, so there was no second date.
The third guy was cute and funny, but horribly allergic to cats, something he should have mentioned on his dating profile but didn't. That's a deal-breaker for me. My Mom has two cats that are constantly climbing all over me or rolling around in my clothes when I visit.
I think a lot of guys are intimated because I write Horror and have my own business. Working from home doesn't help matters much...Sigh.